Baby...

Meron akong close friend na guy na nag open up sakin about sa problema nya sa gf nya...
Alam naman naten na napaka common na lang sa ngaun ang pre marital s*x sa isang relasyon... etong kaibigan ko na ito me gf pero hindi pa sila matagal... naging sila nung panahon na kakahiwalay palang nila ng ka LDR nya na medyo matagal na nyang gf... so meaning rebounce or not so rebounce na relasyon ang pinasok nila, kasi same sila na kaka break palang sa mga karelasyon...

Syempre dahil nga nasa stage sila ng "moving on", ayun mapupusok sila... yung tipong parang wala ng bukas para makalimot... eh ang resulta ng kapusukan nila preggy si gurl ngayon... at hindi ma accept ni gurl panay ang sisi nya sa kaibigan ko... which is mali as in maling mali unang una bakit sa kanya lang ang isisisi hindi naman "r*pe" ang nangyare ah.. pareho nyong ginawa at ginusto napaka unfair naman na isisisi sa lalaki di ba? Kaya pala hindi matanggap ni gurl ang wala sa oras na pagbubuntis nya kc "born again" sya at ikinahihiya nya sa angkan nya at pagkakaroon nya ng ganung sitwasyon... so ayun gusto nyang itago ang bata dto sa abroad at hindi iuwe sa pinas... tama ba naman na ikahiya ang bata dahil lamang sa nabuntis sya na hindi pa sila kasal... isang napakalaking kagagahan di ba? Unang una hindi naman tatalikuran ng lalaki un bata... ang katwiran nun gurl eh un religion nila dapat daw kc kasal muna bago mabuntis... kabaliwan di ba?! Bakit ka gumawa ng ganyan kung gusto mo pala eh kasal muna... naiinis lang ako kasi un reason out nun gurl napaka babaw... nakakainis lang kasi ikinahihiya nya un pinag bubuntis nya... hindi ba nya naisip na un iba nga dyan gustong gusto magka anak pero hindi mabigyan samantalang sya ikinahihiya nya...

Hindi ko alam na me mga babae palang katulad nya... una nyang iisipin ang sasabihin ng tao kesa unahin ang kapakanan ng magiging anak nya... nakakalungkot lang isipin na kung sino pa ang biniyayaan hindi nya maappreciate un blessing na binibigay sa kanya...

Sana lang isang araw magising sya na tanggap na nya ang sitwasyon nya... nang sa ganun maging maayos ang pagbubuntis nya... naaawa ako sa kaibigan ko kasi gustong ipag kait sa kanya ang pagiging ama nito... na kung tutuusin hindi naman nya tinatalikuran...

Para sayo kaibigan... pakatatag ka lang at ipag dasal mo na magising nasa katotohanan ang gf mo at tanggapin nya ng buong buo ang bata... sana maisip nya na isa yang blessing na hindi ikinahihiya...

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